Return to Self: intensives for women

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There are times when something within you knows that you’ve drifted from yourself; you may even feel as if you have no idea who you are anymore.

You may feel uncertain, self-doubting or disconnected from your essential inner guidance, feeling confused and looking to the outside for answers. You may struggle to trust your perceptions, instincts or sense of truth. Often, this happens gradually — through relationships or environments that required you to adapt, stay silent or override your own knowing in order to cope.

Return to Self is for women who sense that what is needed now is not ongoing therapy, but a focused, contained space to reconnect with their inner authority and restore trust in their own truth, wisdom and knowing.

What this work is about

At its heart, Return to Self is about remembering who you were before you learned not to trust yourself, while also fully claiming the added bonus of the wisdom and experience you’ve accrued over the years.

From a transpersonal perspective, this work recognises that healing is not only psychological, but also involves reconnection with a deeper sense of self — including intuition, inner guidance, meaning, and embodied knowing. When these essential parts of us are disrupted through relational or cultural wounding, women often experience confusion, self-doubt or a sense of being cut off from themselves.

This intensive supports you to:

  • recognise where and how your inner authority was overridden or eroded

  • separate your own truth from internalised voices, expectations, or distortion

  • reconnect with your intuitive and embodied sense of knowing

  • restore a felt sense of alignment, clarity, and self-trust

This is not about fixing you or creating something new.
It is about clearing what has obscured what was already there.

 Who this intensive is for

Return to Self may be suitable if you:

  • feel disconnected from your intuition, voice or inner guidance

  • struggle with self-doubt or mistrust of your own perception

  • have experienced narcissistic, controlling or emotionally confusing relationships

  • sense that something essential has been lost or silenced

  • are at a personal or spiritual threshold and want clarity and integration

Important: this work is intended for women who are resourced enough to engage in focused, depth-oriented therapeutic work, and who are not seeking crisis support or ongoing containment.

 A transpersonal therapeutic approach

This intensive is grounded in transpersonal psychotherapy, an established therapeutic approach that honours the psychological, relational, embodied and spiritual dimensions of human experience.

In this work, spirituality isn’t treated as belief or ideology, and no beliefs will be imposed. Instead, it’s explored lived inner experience — the capacity to sense truth, meaning and inner direction. We attend carefully to both psychological process and subtle inner awareness, supporting you to reconnect with what feels authentic and alive within you. However, this isn’t suitable for you if you do not hold open the possibility that there is a spiritual dimension to human life.

Crucially, the work is carefully boundaried, and held with respect for your autonomy and inner authority and personal belief system.

How the intensive works

Return to Self is a time-limited therapeutic container, typically held over six weeks, up to a maximum of three months.

It includes:

  • Three extended sessions (90 minutes each)

  • Sessions spaced to allow reflection and integration

  • Reflective or contemplative prompts between sessions

  • One optional email check-in between each session

  • A clear beginning, middle, and ending

There is no open-ended contact between sessions, and no expectation of ongoing work unless it feels genuinely appropriate to explore that separately.

The focus of the work

While each intensive is shaped by your unique experience, the process often includes:

Session One – Remembering the Self
Exploring where self-trust was interrupted and how disconnection from inner guidance developed.

Session Two – Naming Distortion and Restoring Truth
Working directly with internalised voices, relational dynamics or psychological patterns that undermine your authority and sense of self.

Session Three – Integration and Re-Anchoring
Supporting you to consolidate insight, reconnect with your inner guidance and orient yourself forward from a more grounded and aligned place.

The intention is not to resolve everything, but to support a decisive shift in inner orientation.

Boundaries and scope

Return to Self is not long-term psychotherapy, and it does not replace ongoing therapeutic support where that is needed.

This intensive:

  • does not offer crisis care

  • does not involve ongoing weekly support

  • does not aim to process every aspect of your history

Instead, it offers a focused transpersonal intervention, designed to restore clarity, self-trust and inner authority.

Where appropriate, I may suggest further therapy or other forms of support following the completion of the intensive.

Fee

The fee for Return to Self is £900.

This reflects:

  • the depth and focus of the work

  • extended session time

  • the contained and intentional nature of the process

Payment is made in full prior to beginning, or in two instalments of £450.

Beginning the process

Return to Self is offered in limited numbers to ensure care, presence and spaciousness.

If you feel drawn to this work, the next step is to get in touch to arrange an initial conversation. This allows us to explore whether the intensive feels appropriate and supportive for you at this time.